Why do people volunteer? Generally speaking, a person volunteers to give something of him or herself selflessly. To help others, to make friends, to network, to fill a void of loneliness, to build relationships or to share their expertise with others are some of the reasons for volunteering. Volunteers come in all sizes and shapes but the common thread is passion. They have a high energy level, an enthusiastic view on life, self-motivation, a positive attitude and a willingness to give of themselves to help others.
Unfortunately, there are some volunteers who are very self-serving. Their reason to get involved is usually power, money, or position. They use the organization and the members of the organization for their betterment. It takes time, but quasi-volunteers usually get caught with their pants down, so to speak. Eventually they become transparent and sometimes asked to resign for the good of the organization. Here is where it gets interesting. These people, masters at using others, are very proficient in telling people why they have left the organization. How many times have we heard politicos stepping down because they want to “spend more time with their family” or they have to “put more time into their business?” They should have thought about the amount of time required and what was expected of the position BEFORE they accepted it.
Joining a committee is a good way of trying out a voluntary position. If it’s not a match, the volunteer could leave without affecting the organization. Experience is the key to a good volunteer. Without experience, the novice should not attempt to talk the talk before they know what they are saying.
I am not talking about the majority of wonderful volunteers we have all over our country, but that small group (I hope it’s a small group) of people who take from others and give nothing in return. Without volunteers where would the great humanitarian organizations like Soldiers’ Angels or Crisis Nursery be? Thank you to all the volunteers who give of themselves to help others. You are the special people this world cannot live without.